A Community For Men

Helping Indian Men Overcome Social Anxiety, Build Confidence, & Improve Their Dating Life

50,000+

Men Helped

9.3

(173+ Ratings)

Most Indian Men

Connect Before You Correct

Child's Listening Skills

Harnessing Positive Emotions

Building Self-Esteem & Image

Building Mental Fortitude

Anchoring for Success

Scared to talk to women.

Crushing on ONE girl for years.
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Having boring conversations and running out of things to say.

Lonely and addicted to P*rn.

Endlessly swiping on dating apps and stalking girls on Instagram.

Boring dates that never go anywhere.

After IRON MAN LIFESTYLE

Connect Before You Correct

Child's Listening Skills

Harnessing Positive Emotions

Building Self-Esteem & Image

Building Mental Fortitude

Anchoring for Success

Confident around women.

Has no problem getting the type of women he wants

Smooth conversations that get her instantly attracted.

Has a real-life partner.

Meeting high-quality girls in real-life who are crazy about him.

Exciting first dates that lead to Intimacy and many more dates.

Stories of Transformation

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Founder, PRQ Exteriors

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Founder, PRQ Exteriors

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Founder, PRQ Exteriors

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Founder, PRQ Exteriors

Client From Ahmedabad Goes From Being Lonely to Finding A Girlfriend

‍"Before IML, my dating life was limited to online apps like Tinder and Bumble, with little success.
I lacked confidence in real-world interactions and struggled to meet women.

Getting coached by Kshitij changed my life. I've overcome social anxiety, been on multiple dates, and finally have a girlfriend.”

A. S.

Ahmedabad

How This Lonely Engineer From IIT Went On Dates With Russian Models

"From a socially awkward IIT student to where I am now, my journey with Iron Man Lifestyle has been transformative.

I've dated multiple women, had epic adventures in Russia, and now easily have social interactions everywhere I go. The Mentorship changed my life."

S. A.

Mumbai

30yo New York Client Went From Being Nervous to 20+ Dates in 6 Months

"I joined IML Mentorship because I used to be nervous around women, and had multiple heartbreaks.

The first thing they did was work on my fashion and grooming. Then I overcame my nervousness and their weekly feedback kept me going.
Within two months, my confidence and social skills improved. Over six months, I went on 20+ dates, and had amazing experiences with women I never thought were possible."

S.J

New York

From Being Bullied and Not Being Confident to Meeting 50+ Women in A Few Months‍

"I can’t believe how much has changed in just a few months. Before joining IML, I was incredibly shy and isolated, with only my dog for company. Years of bullying and personal struggles had taken a toll on my confidence. But the mentorship and hard work truly paid off.

There was a time where in one month, I managed to meet 50+ women through cold approach in real life. It’s been an amazing transformation, from feeling invisible to becoming confident and socially active."

K. H

New Delhi

36 Year Old Doctor Meets The Girl of His Dreams
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"I took a Bootcamp & Mentorship 2.0, which boosted my confidence and taught me how to meet women. As a 36-year-old doctor with a busy schedule, I dedicated weekends to working on my social skills.

Within 3 months, my confidence and social skills improved significantly. Now, I'm in a relationship with the woman of my dreams, and we're planning to get married."

D. V.

Bangalore

18 Year Old Guy Gets His First Girlfriend
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“Before discovering IML, I was insecure, weird, and creepy in all social situations. I had no idea how to talk to girls and felt worthless.
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Working with IML, I learnt how to be grounded, how to communicate and have engaging conversations which improved my results with women, and made me more confident.

In some time, I started going on dates and soon met my current girlfriend. The experience with IML & Kshitij has been life changing.”

N. K.

Delhi

Shy 24 Year Old Virgin Goes on 50+ Dates & Builds Confidence in 3 Months

"I used to be shy and socially awkward for most of my youth. I discovered Kshitij on YouTube and started watching his videos.

After 3 years of only watching his YouTube videos, I decided to join Mentorship 2.0.
And within one month of joining, I had my first kiss and lost my virginity.

During the course of the Mentorship, I went on many
more Dates with experiences of a lifetime.”

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A.J.

Delhi

How This DJ With Social Anxiety Met His Soulmate After Working With Us

"A proud student of IML for three years. I joined the Life Coaching Program and the Online Mentorship Program. Before this, I struggled with severe social anxiety and obsessive thinking, avoiding social gatherings and lacking confidence. IML transformed my mindset and taught me social dynamics and dating techniques.

Within three months, my social confidence soared. Now, I'm in a healthy relationship, have a successful YouTube channel, and confidently handle various social situations."

DJ Kave

Chennai

Deepak Went From A Simp To A Stud & Got A Girlfriend
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‍“I had severe approach anxiety and I couldn't hold a conversation with girls. I didn't believe I could get a girlfriend.

Through IML, I overcame my social anxiety, started conversations with 20+ women daily, learned how to have smooth free-flowing conversations. Within months, I met my current girlfriend.”

Deepak

Delhi

Knockout Fight Club Founder Mannan Dattah Recommends Iron Man Lifestyle

“I had been working on myself for a few years, but wanted to learn from a coach directly.

So, I decided to take a Bootcamp with Kshitij. On the Bootcamp, i was pushed out of my comfort zone, got to see Kshitij live in action and how social scenarios work.

In just two and a half to three days, I could internalize theoretical knowledge through practical application, and make it real for me. These 3 days were life changing.”
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Mannan Dattah

Delhi

Forever Single 21-Year-Old Goes on 30+ Dates and And Meets His First Girlfriend

"I struggled and was frustrated with severe anxiety about showing romantic interest and lacked confidence.

IML changed my life. I went on 30+ dates, and got 100+ phone numbers from girls.“
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S. H.

Delhi

How A Client Went From 7 Years Of Struggle To Meeting His First Girlfriend In 3 Days

“I had been trying to work on my social and dating life for over 7 years. I had read a lot of books, watched a lot of content online, but nothing was helping. Then I discovered Kshitij and signed up for coaching with him.
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Kshitij asked me to forget everything I had knew.
Within 3 days I ended up meeting an amazing girl and going on multiple dates with her."

A. D.

Delhi

Our Methodology

Coaching + Accountability + Community

📍Get Coaching on how dating and attraction works,
📍 Stay Accountable to your goals.
📍And be a part of our Community of high-value men.

Checkout our Process

1-0N-1 COACHING

Mentorship 2.0

STEP 1

Apply for Mentorship 2.0

Click on the link below to apply for the 1-on-1 Mentorship Program by filling out out an initial application, and book a call with one of our Dating Experts.

STEP 2

Get A Custom Dating Roadmap

Our Dating Expert will talk to you and understand your current dating situation and goals. Based on which, we will plan a custom Dating Roadmap for you.

STEP 3

Start Building Confidence and Going On Dates

Get real-time coaching and custom feedback to quickly go on dates, build confidence, and date your dream girl.

Check Out Mentorship 2.0

Learn With Us

Suruchi Shah

Mental Health Counselor

Blair is truly a magician and brings out the best in people. Besides learning how to be a successful trainer, I have learned "how to be.“He models authenticity and teaches his students to show up with integrity. Blair has had a massive impact on my personal and professional growth, and I would highly recommend his programs.

Sangita Chauhan

Personal Coach

Being mentored by Blair has been a life changing experience! He is one of the most impactful mentors in my life.

He not only sharpened my coaching skills, but Blair helped me to become a better human being.

I am deeply grateful for his invaluable insights and encouragement that has had a very profound effect on my journey.

Ricardo Delgado

Business Owner and Coach

After completing Blair’s training, I have completely discovered a whole new way to lead my team. Not only lead, but discover what people truly want by asking the right questions. I have become a better leader, teacher, coach, and facilitator.

I highly recommend Blairs programs to anyone looking to improve their overall skills. They are beneficial for life and business!

Thank you, Blair, for creating such an amazing experience!

Ritu Agarwal

Coach

During the Diamond coaching with Blair, I recovered the entire amount I paid for the Diamond before the program was over. The PERT chart magically changed my life. I planned 3 months in advance and launched my landing pages, webinar integrations, LMS, and 4 webinars. My coaching skills have become better leading to more than 8 amazing testimonial videos from my clients and more than 40 Google reviews received from 50 people attending the workshop. I am excited on how things are taking shape. I now see myself as a great coach and a great closer in LIVE webinars.

Dr. Anupam Agarwal

Consultant Orthodontist

When I took Blair Singer's Master Facilitator Program, the version of me that came out of the room on the fourth day was a totally different version of me than entered the training on day one. The new version was more equipped, more empowered and more self-reliant. And more than that, a better human being. I feel truly blessed to be part of the Diamond Coaching close-knit community. We are making more of other people. We feel big within ourselves. It has empowered me and the other students to be better versions of ourselves as we become great teachers, trainers and leaders.

Harmeet Kelley

Entrepreneur, Growth Strategist

Grateful for Blair's timeless teachings. His par excellence approach ensures what you learn stays with you for a lifetime. Forever grateful to have him in my life. I recall Blair saying about the mission was "to create the best teachers, leaders and facilitators in the world that change the way we learn." This statement got etched in my DNA. The kind of results that you can expect by being in his space are something you can't imagine. Using techniques, processes, and principles that I learned from Blair, I have successfully generated $27,500 USD in just 5 months!

1-0N-1 COACHING

Mentorship 2.0

Our flagship 1-on-1 coaching program, where we hand hold you each step of the way to help you build confidence, start going on dates, and attract your dream girl.

Check out Mentorship 2.0

Free 30-Day course

30 Lessons in 30 Days

Daily Dating Secrets Delivered Straight To Your Inbox FOR FREE.
Unlike Maggie, this actually takes only 2 minutes to read.

Get Your 1st Lesson INSTANTLY!!!

LIVE WORkshop

5 Step System to get a Girlfriend

This 90-minute LIVE Workshop with Kshitij will teach you the 5-step System to go from a shy, nervous guy to a confident man who's dating his dream girl.

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BASICS OF DATING & ATTRACTION

Attraction Decoded

A 5-Part Crash Course for Indian Men to
Understand How Attraction Works, Unlock the Psychology of Male-Female Dynamics…And, Finally Become The Man That Women Want.

Course

Simp to Stud 2.0

Step-by-step dating crash course that will take you from a Simp who is scared to talk to girls to a Stud who can meet girls at will, online and in real-life.

Unlock Your RIZZ !!!

About The CEO

Hi, I’m Kshitij Sehrawat

Founder & CEO, Iron Man Lifestyle

10 years ago, I had the same problems that many Indian men face today. Growing up in an all-boys school, I was shy and nervous around girls and had no idea what to say to them. In fact, my ears would turn red anytime I had a conversation with a woman!

Frustrated and lonely, I knew I couldn’t live like this and decided to work on myself. I went out everyday to malls, clubs, cafes, and local markets to socialize and meet women. In order to overcome my shyness and become someone who has had an epic dating life, and is in a happy long-term relationship today.

I started Iron Man Lifestyle to help Indian men understand male-female dynamics, comfortably talk to women without creeping them out, without having to face the challenges that I had to face on my journey.

Now, I’m on a mission to help 1 Crore Indian Men get into fulfilling relationships.

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